Things he used to say about his
childhood. They were poor, sometimes he had
to go to school in bare feet to qualify for free clogs. Also their mum used to cut the toes out of
shoes when the shoes got too small. They didn’t have a bathroom, they
had a big metal bath that they used to put in front of the coal fire. As a boy of 8 he saw a ship sink in the Humber. Dad could remember when Grandma took them both to dance
class for the first time. The teacher
said to uncle Al “Right lad, lets see what you can
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So he did and the teacher
was very impressed. Al went on to be a
professional entertainer.
When dad showed the teacher what he could do the teacher said “I think
you’d best go back to playing rugby son.” He started work at 14 and had a variety of jobs. He worked in a pickle factory and during
breaks him and his mates used to play.
One day they were running along the tops of some barrels of pickle
onions and one didn’t have a lid, he fell in and stank for the rest of the
day! Around this time he wired up the house for his mum so that
if someone entered the house during the night an alarm would sound. During air raids he had to hide under that stairs, the
strongest part of the house. At 16 he was working in a paint factory, in those days they
used to put lead in the paint, this caused my dads pyria and he had to have all his teeth removed so he had
false teeth from the age of 16. He was a good runner and enjoyed rugby for which he won two
small trophies. One day he managed to
catch a run away horse for which he got a right
rollicking off his mum because it was a very dangerous thing to do, he could
have been killed. John Alderton, the actor, lived
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When he was 17 WW2 was in full swing and he joined
Hull Civil Defence. Shortly after he joined
up and was trained to be a paratrooper but was injured just before a major
operation during which many of our men died.
He retrained as a signal man (14819030) and was in the combined services
in the Far East (Static Wireless Troop) serving in Malaya and Burma as those
countries were then called. Our men
serving in the Far East were known Wingate’s Warriors. I believe it was during this time of his life
that he converted to Catholicism. He
told us the story of how just a few men caught a whole batch of Japanese
soldiers during the night. They had
noticed the Japanese approaching.
Enlisting the help of the villagers carrying sticks and farm implements
they lined up on the road ahead of the approaching Japanese. Remember it would have been very dark. The plan was to ‘accidentally-on-purpose’
switch a lantern on. One of the English
soldiers would shout “Put that light out!”. The Japanese would see an outline for a split
second of lots people carrying what look like rifles and they would surrender. Anyway it worked! The memory made dad chuckle.
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3 Platoon 3 coy 5 ITC Gallowgate Richmond Yorks “Sgt Parker and his merry lads” Front row in the middle. Sep-Nov 1944 |
“Yes, I even play badminton,
your loving son” Dad and Vic, Kuala Lipis, Malaya, Sept 1946 |
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“To my brother Albert, from
Eddie” 1944 |
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Dad worked at Blacksburns Aircraft in Brough (later to become British Aerospace). He also became a trawler man and spent a lot of time in the Arctic circle, made friends with Eskimos. He told us how he gave an Eskimo child a sweet with a wrapper, the child not having seen a sweet before initially put it in their mouth with the wrapper still on. They often saw the aurora borealis while in the Arctic Circle, (it was dad who encouraged my interest in Astronomy as a child). On one occasion they saw some Russian military craft and dad being the skipper had to go to London to report on what he had seen. It was while working on a trawler that he lost his bottom set of false teeth overboard and never bothered replacing them. His career as an arctic fisherman came to an end when he slipped on a wet deck and injured his back. He was thankful he had completed his fitter and turner apprenticeship earlier because he could go back to this.
Mum & dad 3rd
April 1961 with (l to r) Kathleen, Al and Teresa |
Mum and dad met at Anchor House in the late 1950’s and
married on 3rd April 1961 at Sacred Heart church. Dad was Senior Workshop Technician in the
Plant Biology department at Hull University for 21 years. Due to the back injuries earlier in his
life he had to wear a surgical corset and had several operations to take good
bone from his hip and put it in his neck to seal up the joints. This meant he had limited movement in his
neck later in life. My memories of dad are of someone who did lots and lots of
charity work for the old, the poor and the disabled under the banner of the
SVP (Society of St Vincent De Paul).
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an hour or so, one of them was a Titanic survivor! He was Diocesan President for much of the
70’s. One of his greatest achievements
was the ‘talking catholic newspaper’.
I remember dad going to the annual national SVP meeting in London to
request the money needed for the equipment and to convert the top floor of St
Anthony’s Parish Centre on Beverley Road into a recording studio. His initial plan was for a small
circulation, just Yorkshire. But
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Senior Workshop Technician,
Plant Biology, Hull University |
cassettes were not only going all over the UK but also to Peru,
South Africa, Australia. All these
cassettes came back to our house each month, two big grey sacks full. Another project was making a chalet at
Golden Sands holiday village ‘Disabled Friendly’ well before the days where
it was a legal requirement. We all
mucked with the building work on these projects, it was great fun. Dad was a kind gentle man with strong
principles. He would never knowingly
hurt someone’s feelings. He had an
interest in local history and kept a book detailing his research. He once wrote a children’s story about an
animal that was a cross between a kangaroo and something else, none of the
other animals liked it because it was ugly, but after it rescued some friends
from a burning building by being able to jump across the ravine everyone
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After his mother died around 1977 dad fell out with his brother Al for several years due to Uncle Al’s problems with alcoholism. When they made up Uncle Al had dried out and was living in a bungalow with a very nice lady friend. We went to visit him, I was about 18-19. Uncle Al got a photo out and showed it to dad. It showed Uncle Al and dad as young boys with another little boy stood in front of dad. “Who’s that?” asked dad. Uncle Al was taken aback. “Don’t you remember little Ronny, our baby brother? He died shortly after that picture was taken” Ronnie had obviously never been mentioned again. Al gave Ted the photo and it stayed on the mantle piece I think until dad died. Dad died on 6th March 1985 after a short battle
against stomach cancer and was interred in Chanterlands
Avenue Cemetery, plot 71-505. Six
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of all the good work he had done. The bench was placed in the grounds of the
convent on Beverley Road. The convent
became a hospice and the hospice (with the bench) has moved to Chamberlain
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Catholic Cassette studio in the
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“Title: the jackpot.
Approx 1250 stone of fish for a 2 hour
tow. Spitzbergen
Sept ’54 0130 hrs (cloudy and dull). R/Optr E. Gillyon
/769 S/T Lord Mount Evans c/o Hull Depot MIMC Co Ltd. Camera; Kodak |
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folding brownie. Film Kodak verichrome, exp time 4
seconds. Negative developed by myself
but commercially printed” |
Repairs to Hull University field station at Spurn Aug 1966 |
Ted with Sarah & Teresa, Majorca, April 1972 |
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Retirement from Hull University after 21 years, 1983 |
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